Friday, January 15, 2010

Treatment..

Too funny, when someone has crossed the line, crossed boundaries, the relationship changes, sometimes it is a guess as to why.  Guessing, what happen, sometimes you are the last to know why there has been a different exchange of information.  Communication is the key to boundaries, sometimes the challenge becomes just that the communication, too often is it the cold shoulder that is the communicator.

Mysmartplans opens the door to communication and transparency.  The obvious question becomes clear, doors open, and truth is revealed.  Often times when a project is being built, someone is taking more than their share, owners are always the ones left holding the purse stings.  Documentation is created, and lost, mysmartplans, is the opportunity to reveal the happenings.

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Thursday, January 7, 2010

Betrayal..

What kind of word is this?  Betrayal? What happened when the "word" was created?  It stems back to Jesus when he was kissed by Judas, oh the pain and the fear.  What is it in the person that creates such an environment?  Imagine if we changed that word to love?  Love  creates a bond, betrayal creates a bond, love creates an emotion, betrayal creates an emotion.  What is the agenda on both counts, I feel they represent a relationship on both fronts, a relationship with self.  When you betray someone you are defining yourself, not the person to which you have violated.  Love also creates a relationship with self, when you love you are free to be a person of giving, receiving and free to live life to the fullest.  I have observed that betrayal is a life of scarcity, a life of loneliness, a definition of death.

Mysmartplans.com opens a door for love, an opportunity to see everything that is going on with your project, the need to lay awake in  bed and try to figure out who is on the wrong side of the fence, who can you trust, who has good intentions for the project.  Imagine a life filled with opportunity to live life free from looking over your back, or wrapping your wounds.  Open your life to an new horizon of transparency!

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Wednesday, January 6, 2010

Another lapse in blogging~

New year, new challenge.  This year is going to be a great year, we have a 45% growth scheduled so far.  Challenges bring great opportunites to find yourself and your voice, my voice is strong and ready to be used.  Where did I find it?  Was it ever gone?  What made me see that if I did not use my voice someone else would use theirs? 

Incidents...this year I was delivered my first granddaughter, a name sake, I was to be an example to her.  I am a trailblazer and my daughter and grandaughter are going to be the same way.  My children have given me the courage to find my voice, the courage to step in places I would have never dreamed of.  Courage is uncovered when situations arise that give you a choice, be a victum to it or create it!! I have chosen create it, repurpose yourself, dig deep down, cry if you need to, but be heard!!

Leadership is a loosely used word, this is birthed during the action, you can not train to be a leader, nor are you born a leader, it is the battle you are in that unleashes this trait!